Statement:
“Running a family alongside being in the army can be tricky, things are not always smooth sailing, 100% stable or future proof. Simply because of the nature of the work you can move around a lot. Sometimes it’s hard to make future decisions. For example my husband is in (redacted location) at the moment and next year may be moving to (redacted location). So we have a house secured in first (redacted location) we are about to move into our house December this year, we are just about to decorate, I can’t wait!
However, if plans go ahead and he moves to the other (second redacted location) next year, we may have to move house again. I suppose a bonus is i’ll be able to decorate all over again too.
Army life has an impact, it impacts schooling - since our boys may have to move schools again. My eldest just settled into his new school this September. It also impacts things like forming friendly neighbour relationships and getting to know the locals and the area. When we move around, it can be difficult for the family. I am caring for my youngest son full time so it doesn’t currently impact my job, but if I do go back into my field of work these are the kinds of things I will need to think about.
My son has started his first school this year September, I keep thinking by next year could be moving to a third school! This is one thing to bear in mind, being in the army can definitely impact future plans and present”
Katie and John
Married couple together for six years, two children 2 and 5. John is based in the supply wing of the army and is currently away on ‘exercise’. I had the pleasure of interviewing his lovely wife to learn and understand a little about her views and experiences as a serving ‘soliders’ wife’ as she carries the main carer responsibilities for the couples two children whilst supporting her husbands career.
Katie supports and encourages her husbands service and duty, but understandably recognises its challenges. We strive to provide Katie and others with protected spaces to offload, understand and support. We also absolutely love our family baking programme where the kids roll up their sleeves and put their baking aprons on!
November 2025